More blog issues but some updates none the less!

I'm tired, cranky and blog spot is not cooperating with me, AGAIN! I can't get my pictures to download. I guess I will just bore you with the happenings of the H-W Family via writing for now.

Pregnancy update - I'm feeling great and the baby is moving all over the place. It is so different than what I remember from Annie because instead of kicking this baby seems to be doing really big flips! I have kidney stones - OUCH - they gave me crazy pain meds for them but I refuse to take them because I can't imagine that they don't get to my little kidney bean and I can't imagine taking that chance just because of some discomfort. You might think that I am a trooper but that would be far from the truth since poor Bob has to massage, put heat on my back and listen to me complain almost constantly - my parents, cousins and aunts get a fair share of my compaining, too. I am hoping that the kidney stones won't require any surgery but why break with tradition right??

The baby is 10 inches and has everything it needs to survive except lung function - YEAH! We are over half way there! We are going on Monday to find out the gender of the baby - please keep us in your prayers on Monday as we also find out if the 2nd trimester screenings that indicated a very high percentage chance that the baby will have Downes Syndrome are correct. Bob and I can't wait to see our little one and find out all we can about it, whatever that may bring!

Peter Westley Update: Our eldest is having some major issues with the break in structure since school ended. He misses his teachers and even the school work but mostly he just misses the daily routine. We don't have a babysitter right now so we are piecing together babysitting so that Bob and I can get to work and I don't think that helps Peter to feel secure and stable with things so we are going to work on that for next week. We also have some school work for him and a daily schedule to follow to try to make things easier. Bob had the kids for the entire day yesterday and after making grinders for lunch (our 4th meal from leftovers that Auntie Ann sent over) he took them to Middletown to visit Papa and then go to Kidcity. I hate when I have to miss fun things with the kids but they had a blast with their Daddy and stopped for ice cream on the way home. Peter figured out his healies thanks to Papa yesterday and is now flying all over the house in them. He is also outside playing basketball almost constantly. We are trying to come up with some money to send him to camp for a few weeks with his buddy Lucas - the town has a great day camp that would be right up his alley! Peter wrote me a very long story yesterday while I was gone about a big robot that went around town smashing things - I love his imagination - this kid has big ideas and he manages to put together some very elaborate stories - I am so proud of how bright he is.

Mary Catherine Update: Molly LOVES summer. She is reading like crazy - I love the sight of my baby girl curled up on the rocking chair on the front porch reading a book. She loves to read anything and everything and rarely has to ask us a word because she has now figured out how to guess the words based on the context of the story - I know I'm bragging but she really is a smart little cookie! She is also organizing her barbies and the entire playroom based on color schemes and designer outfits. I went up and eavesdropped on her playing and talking to her Barbies - she was imitating me when I talk to Bob - I'm doomed. "Honey, I made it perfectly clear what I needed you to do and you chose to ignore me." That is a direct quote that she used while playing dolls and I had just said that to Bob last night. Molly is also loving being home with Annie and doting on her all day - she is defintely her second mother and even answers when Annie says Mama.

Annie Bananie Update: Our girl is finally crawling around - not on all fours but getting around none the less. She does the arm crawl on her elbows with her belly hanging on the ground. She laughs when she moves because she still isn't used to it. A set of keys was the major impetus for her first jaunt and now she goes after anything interesting - including a big spider today - YUCK! Annie is loving having the kids home 90% of the time but the other 10% of the time she just wants a break from the chaos. We noticed her naps have gotten longer - probably self survival on her part! She is also eating EVERYTHING despite her lack of teeth. I spent a few hours trying to get Annie saying Mama on tape today but had no success. She says Dada every five seconds but Mama's are few and far between. Annie went to the doctor yesterday and has an ear infection in each ear - AGAIN! We are going on July 9th for a follow up and will talk about the possibility of putting tubes in her ears because she is having a major issue with clearing fluid. Let's hope the infection and fluid are all gone by then.

KK Update: Auntie Ann and I went up to Boston yesterday to help KK start packing up her apartment. Of course we went to the Celtics Parade first and then had lunch and then walked through Fanuiel Hall and then got cannolis and THEN packed boxes. I'm exagerating a tiny bit but we did get some stuff done and it was a beautiful day to be in Boston and spend some time with two of my favorite people. The kids had their noses out of joint because I went without them - they both at seperate times told me that KK was not going to be happy when I got there without them! They think that fun can only be had when they are around - wishful thinking!

Baby Name Updates: Nobody who has heard our names for the baby likes them but we don't really care - to be honest - none of my kids have ever looked like the names we gave them until a few years later. So here they are:

Patricia Beth Harding - Wheeler - for my brother(Patrick) and my cousin Beth in California

Mack Patrick Harding - Wheeler - Mack is my mom's maiden name and Patrick for my brother

All of our kids are named for special people and we wanted this baby to have the same connection to important people in his/her life. I also think that once you find out the sex it is nice to have a name to start calling the baby so I wanted to be very prepared! We still need to come up with a good nickname for Patricia - I don't like any of the traditional ones so suggestions are welcome!

We are going to have a fun weekend so I promise to post pictures tomorrow - if not on this blog then I'll open a new one with another server. Abby and Tyler are sleeping over and we are going to the big Irish Festival in North Haven so we will have lots to report on and hopefully a little energy at the end to blog! Mrs. Nelson sent an SOS e-mail that she was having H-W kids withdrawl so I'm all over it and promise no more delays!

I just checked Auntie Beth's blog and apparently she is having a bad day and people suck - I think she might be pregnant - just kidding but pregnancy does tend to make you feel pissy towards people! Anyways - I'm sending her a shout out and begging her NOT to disappear - to quote the Howard Jones song from the 80's - "things can only get better." If you need cheering up, Bethie, just call me and I'll sing it to you - now that must be worth a smile even just picturing it in your head! I'll even use my hairbrush as a microphone!

GNM - ILY!

Hang in Auntie Beth!