Saturday, November 12, 2011

The October Blizzard of 2011

I like to tell the story about the year Peter was born. The very first snow fall that year was on October 18th! How do I remember? I was a first time Mom who thought that introducing her East Coast baby to the snow was the coolest thing ever. It was soon superceded by First holidays and first kisses but in October of that year waking at 6 a.m., bundling my lovebug up in his first snowsuit and allowing soft flakes to fall on his face seemed like a dream come true! I had waited a very long time to be a mom and not one special moment was going to pass me by. So.....the first snowfall in October is legendary in our house. And now - 11 years later there was the Blizzard of 2011 on October 29th! We lost power on Saturday, Octobr 29th at around 2pm and didn't get it back until Thursday, November 3rd at around 6pm. It was obnoxiously long, busy and gave us some of our greatest family memories yet!
The family was pretty far from a payday and pretty close to the mortgage being due so even though most people went to hotels or family members homes we had neither as an option. The rest of our family was in the same boat we were and hotels were full and way too expensive! So we hunkered down at 63 Orchard Street and survived the 40 degree nights (in the house, it was colder outside) by lighting a fire in the living room, hanging blankets in the doorways and snuggling up together with books, board games, decks of cards and Bob's fancy storytelling techniques! I won't pretend that we weren't jumping up and down when the power came back on but Bob and I both recognized the absolute gift of having a warm home, a roof over our heads, family to hang out with during the day and healthy children who made the best of the worst circumstances with laughter and fun! One night we headed to the mall until 10pm just to keep warm for a little longer and have something to do. Another night, Auntie Karla made dinner on her gas stove and we all hung out together there! Every day we were with Grammy and Papa. Auntie Karla, Uncle Pat and the kids and Auntie Kake and her kids. Even Halloween wasn't as bad as it could have been thanks to Auntie Karla!
We are so grateful for our family, friends and support system for making the power outage fun, exciting and a loving reminder that  when all else fails - family always comes through!
Thi is a picture of Molly with her pink streaks! A friend convinced me that letting my kids mess with their hair gave them a sense of autonomy but was never permenant.


How cute is my girl in her leopard print? She looks like a teenager all day but I could not take my eyes off of her!


Lizzie snuggled up on the couch a few days before the storm!

Two days before the hugs stomr it snowed just a little bit one night. Bob was at poker and the kids were so excited that i let them get hats and boots on and go explore the winter wonderland for a while. Just as we walked out the door Peter called Papa to tell him it was snowing!
Annie loves being outside - rain or shine!

Lizzie loving the fall snow! We had no idea how we would come to hate the site of snow just a few days later!

The big kids in a moment of peace!


Annie went over and kissed her cold roses!

Guess who showed up a few minutes after our phone call - the BEST Papa ever!

Annie eating some snow!

Papa and his Molly-Girl!

And Annie getting in on the action!

But don't forget Lizzie!

Our two Peters!

My gorgeous girl - Ellie fell asleep before the snow so Molly kept running in to see if she was awake and wanted to come out with us! Needless to say - Ellie slept through the entire night!

Papa tried on a headband to keep his head warm!


Five very cold snowballs!

Lizzie and Eie setting up a library on the first day of no power!

And then everyone headed out for some fun in the snow - the power went out a few minutes later and we ended up having to bring the kids in because the snow was so heavy that branches started falling.

Annie-Boo!

My girl loves her snow!

Lizzie-Bug loving being outside!

Peter and Lucas had made these huge snowballs so the girls took advantage of them and hung out on them all day!

Our little snowman! Lizzie stayed outside for 4 hours!


Making snowballs!


Cleaning off the pumpkins!

Molly found a fun way to spend the first day without power!She got this art set for her birthday and could not wait to use it! She is a terrific artist with a flair for landscapes right now!

Our 6th child, Lucas, was here when the power went off and spent the first night with us! It was great having everyone in the living room sleeping and having fun! Ellie was the only one who preferred sleeping under ten blankets in her room than in the living room. Where Ellie is concerned we have learned that she often knows best soalhough, I checked on her 20 times a night we let her sleep in her room in her own bed!

Sleeping beauty!

Molly - reading with a flashlight. Remember - it was pitch black in all these pictures but when the flash went off it looks like we had full lights.

Daddy and Annie bonding!

Annie and Lizzie loving the beds on the floor.

Peter and Lucas playing DS under the covers!

Our house was 50 degrees during the day but my little monkeys still wanted to be naked all day! They wereocute snuggling together on the couch and playing! Notice Ellie - the only smart one who stayed clothed!









I love Lizzie's arm around Annie!


My sweet angel babies!




Sisters!

hugs!


Secrets!

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Ellie couldn't help but join in the lovefest!



Sisters!

Luke and Peter realized their DS games were limited thanks to the lack of electricity!

Crazy Eights Marathon by candlelight!

Lizzie and Molly awash in sunlight!



They take my breath away!

Visitors who brought snacks!


Grammy and Lizzie enjoying some quiet snuggles!


Kk and her girls keeping warm together!

Three o y favorite people!

The Hardings all came over to play, too! Who knew it could be so much fun to have no power or heat!

Ellie hanging in the beds!


Sister hugs!

Singing to Mommy!

Our saving grace - our beautiful fire place! this is one of the reasons we bought our house and we love it!

Fun at Grammy's house!

I came home from work on Friday to a cleaned out fridge and freezer thanks to Bob! I stopped on the way home to restock some supplies but had to take a picture - this is as clean as our fridge and freezer will ever be!

Sad empty freezer!
This is probably more than you ever wanted to know about our 6 days without power but it was a memorable time for our family. One thing I did forget to mention is the fact that the entire family got the stomach bug during the power outage! Imagine a stomach bug in 40 degree house! At least the germs couldn't survive long! Next I have lots of pictures from Lizzie's birthday! Our little Buggy is 3 years old!
GNM - ILY!

Friday, November 4, 2011

Nothing keeps the H-Dubs from celebrating a holiday!

I have lots of wonderful (depending on how you look at it) pictures of what we did during the power outages last week but first...........there was Halloween on Monday. Nobody had power, the streetlights were out, family was displaced because of the weather and everyone was grumpy but Auntie Karla managed to pull off trick or treating and fun anyways!
The eight grandchildren ready for some trick or treating!


The four little ones lined up at the door to get moving!


Our little princesses!

The five Harding - Wheeler kids ready for some Halloween fun!


Our twister princess and Belle!The kids were so amazingly flexible - they made the best of everything and Auntie Karla made the night incredibly fun for everyone!

My little angel - she is just the sweetest little person I have ever known!

Molly - girl rocking her Twister costume!

C s for Cookie!

My beautiful cookie monster!

Ellie bean was tired and sick of no power but she LOVED her Tigger costume!

My happy girl loving hopping around like Tigger!

Papa and his eight dressed up grandchildren! So much fun!

Abby and Katie looked gorgeous in their Zombie princess and little princess costumes!

Shark boy and Molly!

Belle in her red cloak!

The Cosgers were sweet enough to invite us over to the neighborhood Halloween party since we were with Karla and Pat. They had a generator and fed the kids dinner, candy and then everyone went trick or treating through the neighborhood! It was a wonderful way to celebrate Halloween safely!

Auntie Karla's jack-o-lanterns!I barely found my kids costumes but Karla found time to carve pumpkins!

After trick or treating and going to the Cosger's for a Halloween party we headed up to KK's because she had power and everyone was hanging out there! Both Kk and Bob ended up getting the stomach bug that night - I guess its to be expected in a close family! If you share everything else - why not some germs?

The kids were pooped out from a long night but loved hanging out with Grammy and Papa, Auntie Kake, and KK. The perfect end to the day!


Halloween snuggles!

Kk and her girls - well, some of them!

Lizzie was so comfy on Grammy that she ended up falling asleep!


Then everyone fell asleep!

Annie Bananie was wide awake and looking forward to another night on the living room floor with her brother and sisters and her two parents! She thought that was the best part of having no power!


Molly was offered a sleepover at Kk's but she ended up not feeling good so they rescheduled! We avoided a major headache by getting Mols lots of water and having her head straight to bed when she got home. She is getting really good at recognizing the symptoms of her headaches (I refuse to call them migraines because I don't know that I believe that diagnosis yet!) and taking the proper steps to avoid them getting worse. She eats great, sleeps well and takes care of her body!

Lizzie found a comfy spot on the floor next to Daddy - these moments make my heart swell for my wonderful husband! He is such a great Daddy!

There are 5 kids buried in there somewhere!

Even after having the stomach bug all night Bob was on his A game - snuggling with the girls, getting donuts for breakfast and keeping the fire going all night and day!

She looks like a little teenager! We had to wake Molly up every single morning - that kid can sleep through anything!
So guess what November is??? National Adoption Month! The Harding - Wheeler's have a few different ways that we are going to celebrate but one of them is to be a part of a DCF awareness campaign about adopting through foster care so stay tuned for more! This proud Mama is also speaking at two different conference about foster/adoption interracially and open adoption. My one question was whether I could include pictures in my presentation! They said YES!
GNM - ILY!